Is your erection controlling your life? Has your boy toy been bad and need punishment? If either of those answers were yes, I’ve got the perfect option to handle either of those situations.
I’m not going to lie, I’ve never seen more cocks in my life than when I’ve researched this article. It was quite a fascinating topic and one that took way too long to finish and for that, dear reader, I am sorry. I want to say thank you to the member of the community that suggested this as a topic. It is one that I wouldn’t have published for a while, simply because I never experienced it myself so it wasn’t on the forefront of my mind.
So let’s knock out the information you need to make a decision on whether you or your partner needs a cock cage.
The basic design of a cock cage
The concept and purpose of a cock cage can vary depending on the reason you need one. If you’re a Dominant, a cock cage can be a great form of punishment for a sub that doesn’t know how to keep their hands to themselves or constantly has sex as a driving factor for the things they do. If you’re someone with a penis and it seems to keep getting in the way of your life, a cock cage could be the solution you need.
From what I’ve gathered in my research, cock cages have 4 primary purposes:
Prevents Masturbation
Prevents Sexual Intercourse
Prevents Gaining a Full Erection
Punishment For A Submissive
You may be wondering why you would want to limit those things for yourself or a partner. The explanations are rather simple on the surface, but, could indicate some issues on a deeper level psychologically
Preventing Masturbation – Some people are hyper sexual and can not control their urges to feel a sexual release, while I don’t think there is anything wrong with getting sexual release, there is a time and place for it. Some people dart off to the bathroom at work to rub one out because they had a sexual thought that they couldn’t shake. Some folks will masturbate in a car in the middle of a parking lot. The lack of self-control is the major issue, but a cock cage can help break that vicious cycle and get that urge under control and released at the appropriate time.
Preventing Sexual Intercourse – The reasons someone would want to limit sexual intercourse can range from saving the release for a special night to preventing a partner from cheating while on a night out. The serial cheater can be curbed with a cock cage for the most part. Of course that’s my opinion and not a fact. The build up of no sex can lead to a recovery of sex drive in some people and it can also do the opposite and contain an overly hyper sex drive.
Prevents a Full Erection – This aspect can get into the psychological game of wanting what you can’t have. I suppose, all of these play on that in some form. Cock cages have been known to help with ED (Erectile Dysfunction) in some cases. you’ve limited the brain on what it can have so it begins to want it more. It won’t allow full erections but it will allow the blood flow to circulate in a way that you may have been struggling with. This isn’t medical advice, this is just something I’ve discovered in my research. Talk to a Doctor if you’re genuinely suffering from ED. There’s no need to be embarrassed, it happens to many men at any age. Some men also have an issue with erections happening at the inappropriate times. More reason to contain that monster you’ve got there.
Punishment – This seems to be one of the more common reasons. We all know what edging is, if you don’t there’s an article coming soon about how to properly edge and the benefits of good edge play. A cock cage can be used as the ultimate tease. Imagine your Dom(me) teasing you relentlessly to the point that you could cum without being touched, doesn’t that punishment seem like it might be worth it? Be careful though, cum too quick after being free from the cage and you might get locked back inside. Some Dom(me)s use a cock cage as a form of CBT (Cock and Ball Torture). I can only imagine how uncomfortable a cock cage can get if you get overly stimulated and get a throbbing erection in one.
Cock cages come in 3 main materials and each offer a benefit and a downside as most things in the BDSM world do.
Metal
Plastic
Silicone
Metal – The most common used by people starting into the world of male chastity devices. It is a bit heavy, but there is less likely to be irritation and complications which makes it ideal for beginners
Plastic – A lightweight option, but, as I’ve read in a few interviews, can cause irritation and even pinch points. I read an interview about a guy that got a really stiff erection which opened the seam of the plastic just the smallest gap and as his erection subsided, it pinched the skin creating a brutal blood blister (Ouch)! Cheaper option, but can have downsides that outweigh the positives.
Silicone – As with a majority of sex toys and devices there is a silicone option that is becoming more and more popular., it is also one of the newest concepts that most don’t know about yet. Sometimes more expensive, but, from what others say it is one of the more comfortable options. The only downside I’ve heard of is the lack of lubrication can cause skin irritation.
As with all things I encourage you to do your own research outside of what you’re reading here. I am knowledgeable but I don’t know everything and I for sure don’t know your personal preferences.
Cock Cages are something that needs a proper fit. It can’t be too snug or too loose. I suggest finding a sex toy retail place to speak to someone that can help you find the fit you need. Once again, DO NOT BE EMBARRASSED! We all have desires and I can assure you that you can’t say anything that the people working there haven’t heard or researched. The adult community is one of the most welcoming there is and you shouldn’t feel ashamed for what you are into or curious about, as long as it’s legal and not hurting anyone (that doesn’t want to be hurt of course).
Before I let you read what actual users of cock cages have to say, I want to tell you something that amazed me about cock cages. There’s a good bit of options that implement other kinks into the devices. They make cock cages with a sounding bar attached, I’m going to try sounding one day and write about it. Can’t knock anything until you try it right? If you don’t know what sounding is….it’s hard to explain but it involves a rod (usually metal) inside the urethra. Doesn’t sound pleasant on the surface but I hear the orgasm is one of the best you can get outside of milking the prostate.
They also make a sleeve version of a cock cage that has spikes on it. If you’re not a masochist, I think that is enough to deter an erection. See below and decide for yourself:
They have also created one that has a butt plug attachment which could be an interesting sensation if you were to begin to get an erection. If properly placed, it would cause an uncomfortable yet pleasurable reaction. As you get an erection, the butt plug moves a bit stimulating the prostate, causing the erection to grow more and making a vicious cycle of erection discomfort and prostate stimulation.
Here are some of the things actual users of cock cages have to say (None of these Answers Have been Altered):
What was it like first wearing a cage?
Frustrating.
Exciting
It was uncomfortable, but very arousing.
weird
humiliating, painful and uncomfortable
Difficult to figure out, less convenient then I had thought. It wasn’t too easy to hide.
Made me horny all the time
A little annoying cuz I kept getting hard and couldn’t do anything about but it was also exciting
What do you like most about it?
The frustration.
It acts as a constant base level of stimulation while effectively denying any further stimulation, making it much more efficient in creating a base horniness than “just” denial.
The arousal
The loss of control.
the feeling of tightness.
the anticipation of being unlocked, I’m a 59y old man and it works better than Viagra for me
It decreased masturbation
Not being able to feel, touch or play with your penis unless someone else unlocks you
.It’s a process of denial and reward
What do you like least about it?
It really irritates the skin in my crotch, which starts to hurt a lot after a while.
Didnt fit well
The uncomfortable feeling around the balls
.that I can’t sleep with it
difficult to wash myself
The part that wraps around my balls would make my balls ache awfully bad
It’s still considered taboo
Not being able to please my self when I feel
What surprised you the most about wearing a cage?
How invisible it is under normal clothing.
How much I enjoyed it
That through sufficient vibrations, one can still get an orgasm.
that it is quite comfortable (except at night)the boost of erection and ejaculation volume after wearing it for a week straight (before I masturbated twice a day everyday)
It’s difficult to put on
How much control my penis had over my daily life and how the cage removed this
How long I can actually wear it
What were the benefits?
Mainly that it did its job pretty well, keeping me horny all the time without any release.
Makes you more excitable
I felt hornier
arousing
sexual desire skyrocketed
It decreased irritation and masturbation
No longer think whit my penis
.Play time is much more exciting and more rewarding
What were the downsides?
Well, skin irritations aside, the constant horniness sometimes made it kinda hard to focus on work and such. It wasn’t too bad, but made it harder for sure.
Straining / soreness / too big or too small cage
It was very difficult to pee, and was a bit uncomfortable.
i can’t sleep with it
some initial discomforts
The age
Sleeping and nighttime erections
Waiting and knowing what time I was getting let out
What was your first interaction with chastity?
Bought a cage and tried it, lol
.Porn / TV as a preteen
I found out about female chastity before male, and then later found out how it was used in femdom.
In porn
wearing my cock cage
heard about it on a podcast
A punishment for not being able to edge
What drew you to the kink/fetish in the first place?
Transfer of power/control (as with so much in the bdsm realm). I find it really hot and exciting to not have control over my own orgasms.
Porn
The femdom aspect, and the loss of control over one of the most intimate parts.
curiosity
Following locktober
orgasm denial
I wanted to try something new with my dom
How long have you been practicing chastity?
How did you get into it?
Having a dom willing to try something new with me
By finding random bdsm related porn and articles.
I was into (some forms of) pain and bondage before even knowing the proper terms for it – once I found out about bdsm as a whole, that’s when I got more into it.
Seeing it in a porncuriosityPorn
masturbation control
What’s your favorite material for a cage?
Metal
tried both plastic and metal, both have their characteristics good or bad
Plastic
Hard to say. Probably quality plastic (specifically something like PA12/”nylon”). From my experience material and build quality are the most important factor, not material
plastic
metal
Whats the longest you’ve been locked up?
4 days
2 days in a row
.About three days. After that, the skin irritation started getting bad enough that I sadly had to safeword and cancel. I’ve done months of non-caged denial, but haven’t been able to wear a cage for longer than three days.
2 days
24 hours
3 days
week
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