THE MONDAY MUNCH
Before the clips, there was a table. The Monday Munch crew showed up and talked honestly about the stuff most people only whisper about. They argued, they laughed, they taught, and they made strangers feel like they belonged somewhere. Some came once. Some never missed a week.
It didn’t end clean, and I’m not going to pretend it did. Endings rarely do. But a messy ending doesn’t erase what happened at that table, and it doesn’t touch what those people gave this community.
These clips are theirs as much as mine. Doesn’t matter if you sat at that table one time for five minutes, or you were there every week till the bitter end. If you were part of it, you’re honored here. Thank you. You helped build this place, and you’ll forever be part of the journey.
HOW WE GOT HERE
Before Kinkslayer, there was an idea called Black and Blue, back when I was still a cop and the only person in my world who’d ever sit at that table was Jenn. In January 2021 my department fired me for saying supportive things out loud on the internet. So I built a brand that IS the message, and that same winter a little radio show started on an app called Clapper.
The radio show became the Monday Munch, and the Munch became a table. People showed up every week to talk about sex, kink, love and all the stuff you’re not supposed to say in public, with whoever wandered in and stayed. We jumped between platforms, the website went up, the seasons piled up, and for four years that table was the heartbeat of this place.
The last Munch aired in the spring of 2025. What happened next is its own entry below, and I’m not going to dress it up. The Munch ended. The table is part of the foundation now.
THE SHORT VERSION
- Before 2021 — Black and Blue, the idea that started it all
- January 2021 — Fired from the police department
- Winter 2021 — Kinkslayer radio starts on Clapper, the Monday Munch is born
- October 2021 — kinkslayer.com starts publishing
- 2023 — Full seasons of the Munch, a table that felt like family
- Spring 2025 — The last Monday Munch
- June 2025 — The denouncement, and the split
- Now — The clips live in the player, and the new show is being built
THE DENOUNCEMENT
In June 2025, a group of former cohosts calling themselves The Polaris Court published a 52-page denouncement of me and this brand. I had asked them for it, more than once, and they delivered. As coup attempts go, I rate it a 3/10.
It’s linked here in full, unedited, because this community can read and make up its own mind.
Whatever you think of it, the people behind it sat at that table too, and what they gave this place while they were here still counts. That’s the whole point of the page you’re standing on.
LISTEN
The best of that table is cut into clips in the player. Hit shuffle and start anywhere.
Press PLAY to shuffle 63 Monday Munch clips.
Don’t worry, it’s only kinky the first time.